met up with an old friend of mine, after like 3 years? haha he didn't change much and he said i'm too skinny! i hate people to say i'm too skinny bcoz i'm not!! its just that u havent seen my fats which are well hidden.

he talked alot about his relationship and he was so hurt by it. his perspective really changed alot after all the girls he met. i knew him back in sec sch days and he was such an innocent and devoted guy, full of hope of finding his true love (haha you may laugh and think it's so cliche but he really meant it!) But after all the girls he met, he thinks that its all a bullshit and girls are just waiting to be laid and guys waiting to lay others.

he will go club everytime and has flings coz he dun wana get hurt again in an awful relationship. but despite all the flings he has and what they have done, i know he still loves his ex gf very much.

perhaps this incident lets me really realises "nv judge a book by his cover". if i didn't know him, i'll prob think he's such a jerk.

last time whenever a guy breaks up with a girl, i will always think that he's such a jerk! he falls in love with another girl! idiot! but now when i'm older and become more mature, i come to think about the fact that is it really wrong to do that even if the other girl is a more suitable one? is it wrong to find a better one for yourself? of coz i dun encourage 2-timing or cheating behind one's back, thats a different story, that is just lust! One must really distinguish love and lust.

As what i always say to my christian gfs, according to the bible, once you marry, you must commit! Therefore in order not to regret, one must really choose wisely! Ok guess I'm not really talking any sense.